Living in a foreign land with diverse cultures has broadened my horizons, exposing me to a multitude of new experiences. Within this article, I aim to recount my son’s journey during the last Ramadan period, a story that ignited my curiosity to delve into Indonesia’s most spiritually significant and joyous occasion of the year.
I’d like to begin by recounting a story of my son on last Ramadan. One day, he returned home today and gleefully shared with me an incident at school: With the start of Ramadan period in Indonesia, he observed some of his Muslim friends diligently fasting for throughout the day, refraining from both food and drink. For them, this meant a significant adjustment in their daily routine, particularly during usual recess when they’d gather for football together. His close friend, due to fasting, could not participate in their football matches. So one day, in a gesture of unwavering support (and perhaps a bit of personal curiosity — a favorite approach of his), my son decided to join as well by skipping lunch and keeping his friend company. I know how difficult it was for him, since he had always been a big eater and couldn’t resist when it comes to food. As a parent, witnessing this act of empathy and camaraderie filled me with both surprise and delight. This experience motivated me to delve deeper into Ramadan, a profound celebration in Indonesia, and further underscored the value of embracing new cultures to encourage our children’s understanding and appreciation of differences. It was an invaluable lesson for my son, highlighting the strength of friendship and supportive actions. So I’m thrilled to share this heartwarming story in my weekend post today. I hope you enjoy this insightful glimpse into a different culture.
Reflecting on this experience has also prompted me to learn more about Ramadan and the significance of this holy month for Muslims around the world. Do you know that Ramadan is actually the ninth month of the Islamic calendar and that fasting during this time is one of the Five Pillars of Islam? I found it fascinating to learn more about the spiritual and cultural significance of this practice.
Ramadan: A Month of Spiritual Growth and Giving in Islam
1. What is Ramadan?
Ramadan is a significant month in the Islamic calendar that is observed by Muslims worldwide. This holy month involves fasting from dawn to sunset, where individuals abstain from food, drink, smoking, marital relations or getting angry during the daylight hours. In addition, those fasting are supposed to refrain from bad habits — lying, getting angry, using bad language as well as to be more diligent in prayer and give to charities. It is believed that fasting heightens spirituality and develops self-control.
Moreover, Ramadan is not only about personal spiritual growth, but it is also a month of generosity and giving. This month serves as a reminder for Muslims to think of those less fortunate and to help those in need. Hence, it is known as the month of giving. Muslims donate to charity, feed the hungry, and perform acts of kindness towards others. The spirit of giving during Ramadan brings communities together and fosters a sense of unity and compassion.
2. How is Ramadan in Indonesia?
Ramadan in Indonesia is a festive and spiritual time. The country has the largest Muslim population in the world, with over 200 million Muslims. The month of Ramadan is marked with various traditions and practices, such as the Tarawih prayer, which is performed every evening during the month. Mosques throughout the country are packed with worshippers, and the atmosphere is very lively and energetic.
During Ramadan in Indonesia, a distinctive tradition is the “buka puasa” or breaking of the fast, which involves gathering with family and friends to share a meal after sunset. The streets and markets become lively with stalls selling various foods and delicacies that are exclusive to this time of year, creating a vibrant atmosphere.
3. What to Expect during Ramadan in Indonesia?
As an expat in Indonesia during Ramadan, the change in the pace of life can be significant and important to understand. It’s essential to keep in mind some of the key features that may affect daily life.
Household tasks and work may take longer as household staff wakes up early to prepare their pre-dawn meal and adjusts to their altered schedules with a midday nap. Therefore, it’s important to exercise patience and tolerance with those who are fasting and to refrain from eating or drinking in front of them. Muslim colleagues may become more devout in their prayer routines, and restaurants may stop serving alcohol during the day. Additionally, as the festival of Lebaran approaches, marking the end of Ramadan, food prices tend to increase. Household staff usually takes time off to visit their families during this period, so we should prepare to manage our daily chores without their usual help. It’s also crucial to note that the government mandates a one-month bonus for all staff and salaried employees at the end of the fasting month.
