لنستخرج كنوزا من المعرفة و الإبداع و العلم و الأفكار
So serendipity brought me this interesting video.
Watch it and read some of the comments.
There is mine:
The part of the explanation about the cultural, social influences is correct, the stuff about intolerance of female anger is on the other hand wrong, or at least mostly irrelevant. What is missing is that it is a control strategy of someone who is physically weaker, and this strategy is augmented by culture these days.
The operative word being "control". Women like that see a man as someone to be controlled at all costs, not someone with whom she will have a mature, accountability based relationship. Immature women cannot conceive a relationship in this way.
On the other hand, One must ask oneself if the irresponsibility and immaturity of men doesn't play a role in all this.
A Patriarch MAN, will never lose it emotionally, but also never be controlled, and will lead in a way a woman either senses what is her right place, or if she can't, she will get dumped. Women who have correctly matured under the influence of a Patriarch father, or otherwise, will not see life as a control game, but as a partnership.
Perhaps because a wise Patriarch father is not a control freak, a dictator, but someone whose leadership is based on team and partnership creation, and the physically weaker female feels SECURE into having an honest accountability based, mature relationship with a man.
Of course, in some women, it might not be fear, just being mean, and using victimhood as a way of putting a man on the defensive and justifying himself.
Her Patriarch boyfriend or husband must recognize this basically panicky way some women react to men, put clear boundaries, and teach them that they don't need to feel like that, don't need to play power and control tactics, which are basically the result of fear. If that fear is too ingrained and developed a pathological personality, replacing her natural one, a Man must evaluate if trying to elicit in her the right patterns based on trust, partnership, self reflection and accountability is worth the effort.
In short, it all boils down to Patriarchal force and wisdom, versus masculine immaturity.
Of course, there are political forces who exploit and potentiate this kind of egotistic pathology in women, because they have recognized its potential in destroying healthy humanity in our societies, dividing men and women through the destruction of true Masculinity and Femininity.
They also exploit some weaknesses of a different kind in men
Link : https://www.stormfront.org/forum/t1388783/#post16049526
